Breaking Hearts : The Two Sides of Unrequited Love

Throughout history, unrequited love has inspired ballads, arias, poetry, drama, and literature.

Almost always, however, the tale of the star-crossed lovers has been told from the point of view of the heartbroken pursuer.

This illuminating new work explores unrequited love from both sides--that of the aspiring and eventually brokenhearted lover, and more unusually, that of the beloved, unwilling rejector.

Based on systematically collected first-person accounts, BREAKING HEARTS shows how radically different and often contradictory the two experiences actually are.