The tricky art of co-existing: how to behave decently no matter what life throws your way

A "sensible and extremely amusing" guide to etiquette from the comedian and former cohost of The Great British Bake Off (Library Journal, starred review).

No one learns "etiquette" anymore (except by embarrassing trial and error). But manners are more than a dusty tradition: Done right, they make life easier for everyone. That's why Sandi Toksvig, cohost of The Great British Bake Off, highlights decency rather than convention in this entertaining guide, with:

• Spot-On Advice: "Remember-you don't have to answer the phone, so don't do it if you don't have time to be polite."
• Fascinating Trivia: "It is very rude to clear the plate of someone who hasn't finished. In fact, the Romans believed doing so would bring about the diner's sudden death."
• And Her Characteristic Wit: "Focusing on the people you share a meal with is both a pleasure and a necessity. Get to know your family members; you might even like them."

Be the most decently behaved person in the room, and the most interesting: Master The Tricky Art of Co-Existing!

"Instead of some prissy, preachy list of rules, [the author] backs up her suggestions on etiquette with occasionally obscure and often hilarious facts." -Bust