Her ladyship's guide to modern manners

This is an essential guide to etiquette that strikes a balance between the stuffy, rigid rules of the 1950s and the anything-goes school of thought.

Instead, it gives sound advice on good manners and which formal etiquette rules are still a very good idea.

Accessibly written by a leading writer who understands the rules but also human psychology, the book covers: Introduction - Etiquette versus good manners; The Basics - punctuality (and overstaying your welcome), saying sorry, etiquette and snobbery, when it's best to lie, and coping with other people's children; Party People - invitations, playing host, being a good guest, meeting and greeting; Christenings, Weddings and Funerals; Eating Out - from saying grace to understanding cutlery; Going to Stay - Following house rules, helping out, don't make yourself too much at home; Good Communication - etiquette in letters, email and phone; What to Wear; The Spoken Word; Good Sportsmanship; and Appendix - Forms of Address.